monteverdi durant: Negative Relationship Quiz

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Lost on the Road to True Love

So many conflicts and relationship issues stem from past life agreements that are over and done with. They can cause you to feel lost, alone, dissatisfied with your love partner or prevent you from finding true love in this lifetime.

To assist you and make your current life easier, you can use this relationship game to help you let go of any karmic agreement that is complete ? over and done with or that is causing you harm in any way.

Take this love quiz around anyone that you have a strong soul connection with ? your family, friends, co-workers, lovers, ex-lovers, etc. By doing so you can free up a lot of mind power that is still caught up in the past. After all, don?t you need all the presence you can muster to help you create the love relationship you really want?

How to Let Go of a Negative Relationship

Step One ? Identify if You Have a Soul Connection that?s Affecting You Negatively

Relax and gaze gently at this Soul Circle while you ask yourself this question:
?Is there someone in my life today that used to be my partner??

Tuning into the next Circle will help you identify who is involved.

Who is it? There may be more than one.

Step Two ? Find and Let Go of Harmful Soul Contracts

Use the following Soul Contract Circle to help you identify and release the agreements that are complete or that are causing you harm today. Simply gaze softly at the Circle while you use the affirmations. It can be helpful to imagine the agreements burning up into ashes to make sure you have completely let go of each contract. Go through them one at a time for best results.

?I let go of past agreements that are finished and done with.?
?I release any debts, vows or obligations that no longer serve my best, long terms interests.?
?I let go of any outdated idea that is causing me harm.?

Step Three ? Releasing Control Issues

Let?s take a look at a couple of other syndromes that might be making it hard for you to find and stay on the road to true love:

#1: The ?I love you forever? syndrome.?

Many people have difficulty moving on from a relationship because they?ve made an agreement that they can?t possibly keep. When couples decide to get together, at first it seems so ideal, so romantic to say, ?I?ll be with you forever,? or ?I?ll never be happy with anyone but you.?
The problem with vows like these is simple ? forever is a very long time!

We?ve known many people going through a past life regression who?ve come up against this obstacle and it often keeps them stuck in an abusive or unhappy relationship, until they consciously release their agreement.

Once you free up your mind from unrealistic vows from the past, it?s amazing how quickly and easily a stuck relationship can change. If any of this sounds familiar, consider letting go of the ?I will love you forever syndrome? with this Circle and these affirmations:

?I release any agreements that I must be with anyone ?forever.?
?I let go of the belief that I can only be happy with one person.?
?I release any agreement to take responsibility for others from my past.?

?My new agreement is that I am true to myself.?
?I take good care of myself. I am a priority.?
?I love myself and let go of people, places and things that are no longer good for me.?

#2: The ?I love you, now you?re my prisoner? syndrome.?

In many societies, there?s still a left over idea that our loved one is somehow our property and that they are obliged to do things or behave in a certain way. If you?re having a lot of control issues or problems in your relationship, you might want to consider releasing these agreements:

?I let go of the concept that people are property.??

?I let go of the belief that I am a piece of property.?

??I let go of any negative beliefs about this that are causing me harm.?

?I relax and let go of controlling others or allowing others to control me.?
?I am responsible for my own life.?

Congratulations!

It?s so helpful to release old agreements with soul connections that are over and done with, especially when you?re ready to move into or out of a relationship. Once you?ve let go of these agreements, pay attention to how your life changes.

There?s an old song that goes like this:
?Love is a rose, but you better not pick it,
Only grows when it?s on the vine.
Hand full of thorns and you know you?ve missed it,
Lose your love when you say the word ?mine.?

Rheanni Lightwater ? 2012

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